we are coming up on one year of forkheartknife.
we opened may 5, 2010. planning to be a catering kitchen that would throw dinner parties with our extra food. a place that neighbors could enjoy. filling a niche for creative, well prepared, inexpensive food in a creative neighborhood. a chance for us to get different energy into the kitchen, to offer hospitality, to meet new friends. we knew our limited equipment (1 induction burner, an oven, a 2-door fridge…) wouldn’t be able to accommodate diners for that ‘real restaurant’ experience. so we’d just turn it a little, make a game out of ‘restaurant’….
catering is a funny thing. we enjoyed doing food for small parties, lunches, dinners, friends… we enjoyed the creativity that almost all of our customers let us run with. but, our schedule was all over the map! so, we decided to ground ourselves with a thursday night dinner. open to the public, consistently good food- but a changing menu. adventure.
thursday nights were packed! we couldn’t make enough food! we developed menus that we could prepare ahead in our space, warming hot food and tossing salads together to order. like a catered dinner party over the course of 4 hours. with lots of people pouring in to see what we were serving up for dinner. folks seemed to love the sense of adventure, the rush of not knowing what was to be served or even if they’d get food, the energy in the place… we loved the energy too. the outpouring of support from OTR neighbors, the chance to host our friends and family in a place that we’d created. a cozy, fun, open kitchen- gave lots of interaction and energy to us! we decided to share the lovely light of day in our kitchen with a sunday brunch.
then we were doing two steady meals a week. selling out of food at both meals, serving 60-80 customers. rocking the little place! working double time- a day to prepare the food and a day to serve the meals. we started getting some kind press: bloggers, metromix, citybeat… we started getting questions: why aren’t we open more often? why aren’t we open for lunch? how are we going to make the place bigger?
we started feeling pressure to offer more meals. so we added friday dinner. this way we could be a part of the monthly main street final fridays. we could cook wednesday for thursdays and fridays, saturdays for sundays. this brought us to a very full work week. we enjoyed being open to the public. planning a menu that excited us and throwing it up on our paper menu gave us a control over the food that catering didn’t. we were at 5 to 6 days of planning, shopping, cooking, and serving. and the tipping point: was it time to drop the catering aspect and just run this thing as a restaurant? would people be into a little place that only offers a few meals? would we be able to create this intimate, friendly atmosphere over and over? would we be able to continue creating menus that excited us and our customers using our limited equipment? could we keep up with the set schedule, the customer expectations, the interactions? we decided to go for it.
we enjoyed a summer and fall of menus inspired by the fresh veggies we are getting from OTR homegrown, megan hill at lorax on liberty/elm, from timmy’s backyard garden. food is fun and we were coming up with menus that worked and sometimes didn’t work in our space. we were learning lots. meeting tons of neighbors. selling our food. keeping things fresh.
winter came and we knew we needed to add another day to make up for the loss of our 3 outdoor tables. we did some private dinners in our space in december to keep things moving. january 1 we switched things up. the brunch meal seemed to get the most attention, like a nod in cincinnati magazine (yikes!), that brought with it hour+ wait times on sundays. we needed to spread things out a bit. we decided to add saturday brunch. we knew we couldn’t physically do friday night and be back early saturday morning, so we chose to offer wednesday/thursday dinners. we always thought we were a weeknight kinda place anyway. there are tons of other great weekend/high-end places in OTR- we wanted to be the neighborhood place that served your weeknight meal. simple and low -maintenance. at this point we’re at four days a week. with one day mostly off. still selling out of food. we’re tired. it’s winter. food is comforting and warm. nothing is in season in cincinnati. nothing is ‘local’. menu inspiration is getting harder. our lack of equipment frustrating.
we are flattered and excited to have two bites featured in cincinnati magazine’s restaurant issue! and also nominated for crazy awards in citybeat’s best of issue. things feel pretty wild and crazy and we are starting to see lots of new customers who are finding out about us, making treks to OTR from who-knows-where. bringing with them expectations that we can’t and don’t want to meet. managing new customers and their expectations, managing long wait times: this is starting to feel overwhelming. our space is so intimate, the experience we offer is so giving of ourselves: our creativity, our emotion, our grieving, our energy. we are sharing all of this with a new kind of customer. one who doesn’t know that we are limited. one who doesn’t know that there is a long week of work going into just these four meals. one who doesn’t respect that we have opened and are maintaining a business (and a restaurant at that!)- we find it hard to rejuvenate after these meals. we are not getting the joy from our neighbors and friends and families (who decide not to wait, or take up a table) that made this place feel so magic. we can’t imagine another year of trying to make this tiny, ill-equiped, intimate space work . . .
this is why we have decided not to renew our lease. we will serve our food until our birthday, may 5 with heart! and then we will look to the future and see where we find ourselves next.
we love that we have had this opportunity in cincinnati.
we are so happy that we have been embraced by so many! especially our neighbors and friends in OTR. OTR is an amazing neighborhood full of support.
we have felt loved and we have loved in return!
we don’t know what is in store for us, but we are looking forward to the future, to more good food, to more small restaurants, to more freshness and to more travel. we hope that we continue to see lots of creativity bursting out of this town! three cheers for the risk-takers and the independent thinkers and business owners! we see so much around us and we want to be a part of this great community of cincinnati!
thank you so much! and we look forward to pouring our hearts into each meal we serve until our birthday, may 5.
I was afraid all the publicity was going to make this happen! All money is not good money- If it’s not fun and inspiring it’s time to quit. Bigger is not better in my opinion and I have nothing but respect for you. A similar thing happened to my buddy Matt’s restaurant after it was featured on a popular television show- regulars could no longer get a table. You know your real fans, those of us who “get” your business model will be looking forward to your next venture.
I applaud you for what you have accomplished, I’m so very proud of both of you. And clearly understand where you are coming from, just sad that it got so overwhelming. Great job, always heard wonderful things about the food. Wish you only the very best in the future, curious to see what that might be!!!!
We love you, FHK. Thank you for EVERY. thing. You’ve done – your little space has really carved out a special place in the community, and you will be missed. Cheers – I can’t wait to see what you come up with next!
I’m so sad you will be leaving!
I’m in school abroad and my fiance is in Cincinnati. We were talking about how we couldn’t wait to go to forkheartknife together when I came to visit in May, but I will miss you by one week. I won’t be home until May 12!
I can’t believe it! ): I wish you all the best of luck in your future endeavors, and will miss your delicious, quaint restaurant!
I really do wish you the best of luck in whatever your future might hold. FHK was an absolute favorite, not just for the food (which was always top drawer and delicious) but the feeling of warmth and kindness everyone working there showed us. It was more akin to going to a friend’s house for a meal rather than the usual detached restaurant experience. You will be missed. Thank you.
I’ll say it forever…I’m so damn proud of you guys!
you worked your butts off, and had fun! what more can you ask out of a year? sad to see you go, but excited about what’s next in store for you as individuals outside of your wonderful mastermind, Fork<3Knife. The best of luck, and THANK YOU. xoxxo
What you guys do is fantastic and we were lucky to have it for a year. I will miss you though in that adorable little spot that you created, but I look forward to hearing about what you are up to next, (Or not up to
best best
Have you considered Slims…I am sure you have or the new American Can building…they are moving forward with the 80 to 100 units there..
You have to know the Northsidians are hoping you come herecome here…and we will make sure it works for you….$$$$wise…
Good luck in whatever you decide to do ..but most important DO WHAT YOU LOVE….
Hi Friends,
So sorry to hear this, and we’re tempted to be disappointed (–not looking forward to losing such great neighbors!).
HOWEVER we can’t be disappointed.
After all, the first thing you said to us -from behind the counter- was, “We’re really excited to do this, but we don’t want to become crazy restaurant owners, like so many we know. We want to do it with balance.”
You succeeded in creating an intimate, wholesome, delicious environment serving your neighbors and friends. Everyone craved more of your thoughtful creations and wanted to absorb more of your great energy. There are so few of you and so many of the rest of us.
We were honored to have you, to be inspired by you, and to be fed by you.
We support you in all of your future endeavors, and we hold you in our hearts until your triumphant return!
Love,
Your OTR neighbors
thank you! your understanding makes this transition much easier! we have appreciated your support most of all!
I go to Mexico and come home to THIS??? But ya know what?? i applaud you guys for making the decision and know in my forkHEARTkinfe that it was the best one. Can’t wait for your next adventure. I forkHEARTknife you guys!!!!
I only recently discovered how great you, and your restaurant, is. I hope to dine often before may 5, and after if you choose to re-open in a new space(s). Good luck with your future endeavors!
You gals are amazing. You make meals with heart. You serve from the heart. You write from the heart. You live from the heart.
I remain in awe of all the hearts you have touched and tummies you have pleased and the magic we have tasted on every level at FHK.
Thank you for your generosity and your creativity and your honesty and your love and your hard work.
Life is one big adventure and you encourage us to wake up and grab ahold! To take risks. To start, and then start again. Only good can flow from hearts like yours! Much love and gratitude!
Beautiful ladies. Even if you never cook another community meal, please know that you taught SO MANY what it means to eat love. You gifted us all with a year of love-filled nourishment and once we’ve eaten from a plate such as yours it’s impossible to return to mindless eating. Thank you so sincerely for the gifts, the love and the grace. Xo R + The Yoga Bar.
NOOOOO!!! How can you have so much integrity???
Seriously – Doug, Spencer and I will all miss you deeply – we loved walking by and seeing the steamy windows and all your smiling faces! We have savored every bite of your delicious food … although we hardly ever got to eat inside with the crowds that piled up, we happily waited and carried your lovely food in the little black boxes up to our place and we could feel your love in every bite… You have brought so much vibrancy to our little corner of the world.
Sierra and Leah – we have grown to love you and are so glad you have been our neighbors and become our friends this past year. We and OTR are so much the better for it <3
Oh No!!!! I haven’t eaten enough of your wonderful cuisine. I will have to come every time you are open and enjoy . You Took a LEAP INTO THE UNKNOWN and came up with a WINNER. Leaving when you are on top is practically unheard off. Good for you. Listening to your hearts and bodies is a hard thing to do, especially in the midst of applause. I am so proud of the LEAP and now proud of your LISTENING. Whatever comes next will be what is right for you. Creativity oozes out of you both. It will have a rebirth and I will be waiting to see and cheering you on all the way. X0X0X0X0
The words from a song of my youth says “You gotta have Heart miles and miles of Heart” No one I known has more HEART than you two wonderful women.You followed your heart to where you are.It is leading you now.Thanks for showing us what that looks like.PEACEFUL BLESSINGS
So sad to see/read this post. I love you guys. I think that it is so refreshing to eat your food. I’ve enjoyed the conversations that I’ve had with you the few times I’ve been in. I also just want to say thank you for having a space that has been so inspiring to me and for being so friendly. I will be back soon and will miss forkheartknife after May 5.
Leah & Sierra, oh my heavens, how we will miss your smiling faces so often in our neighborhood. You two and the space you’ve created represent so much that is amazing about this neighborhood. The friends, the spaces, the quirkiness, the heart, the passion. I wish you so much luck in your next endeavors, but I am just plain heartbroken to know that soon you will no longer be just on the corner. I love you guys — everything you made was delicious and inspiring. Love and luck, neighbors. We’ll miss you.
…But don’t you worry — you will see plenty of us until then
We just finished a delightful meal in your cosy space, so I wanted to chime in and add my voice to the community of folks who appreciate your contribution.
I’m a newbie; we first experienced the forkheartknife love when we shared a meal during bochfest with some OTR native friends (we’re from Norwood). And I was so taken with the care behind every detail in that one experience that I’ve been sharing you with pretty much everyone I talk to since then…which, reading this post, I’m hoping I wasn’t a part of what made the joy and connected community you were experiencing grow to something overwhelming and unmanageable….But I applaud you for knowing your limits and making choices that will enable you to receive and give the fullest capacity of joy.
I think that’s what I sense in your space, savoring your creations. It’s clear that you take great delight in what you do (and I’m even more impressed, getting a better idea of the challenges you face after reading here). Every aspect is celebrated…of course the amazing fare, but also the warm hospitality, inviting, cosy aesthetic of the space, thoughtful graphic design on the card bearing our name that reserved a table for us, even the smart limitations to a menu that’s always still abundant….such gracious consideration in every detail.
Thank you for giving the gift of your joy in that space. May the next season be one that replenishes that joy. (until then, my husband and I are scheming a once a week picnic downtown, where we bring our tupperware and soak up as much FHK love as possible around the city…come on, spring!)
thank you!!!!! (and yes, come on!! spring!)
I’m so bummed I never got to eat at forkheartknife! My family absolutely raved about it, but I only found myself in Cincinnati this past year when you were on vacation. Regardless, I just wanted to say congrats on the success and best of luck with whatever exciting ventures come next. I hope I get to taste your awesome-looking food someday!
I don’t get it.
If you can make the bills, why not scale back to where you were when you enjoyed it? I don’t agree with the presumption that to be successful you must continue to grow.
We no longer live in Cincy, but have good pals there, which is how we learned of your OTR business. While having dinner with some of those friends, we were treated to forkheartknife’s delicious food…and it was indeed fabulous! I am saddened that we won’t have the opportunity to visit you on-site. It’s possible life’s adventure may bring us back to Cincinnati to live and you were top-of-the-list to check out. Disappointed? Yes, for us, but so pleased and impressed with your dedication to getting what you want and protecting what you love about your passion. It is always tempting to do more, expand, go commercial. I lift a virtual glass to you for resisting the pull of more-more-more. The reward will always be in doing what you love, not in the profit margin. Best of luck to your continued success with whatever is next!
thank you!
I’m so sad. I never got to here. I’m in Boston… everyone at home has been absolutely thrilled by everything about this place.
Please tell us you’ll find bigger space… I know you’re frustrated but Cincinnati needs you. You’ve been such an inspiration to those you’ve served and to the OTR neighborhood.
I’ve had only one of your meals, shortly after fhk opened nearly a year ago. I was hoping to buy a house on Orchard Street and was so comfortable in it and with its current owners that they invited me to have a forkheartknife meal with them. We did take-out, eating in the house. I’m a forkoverknife person (vegetarian) and of course you had wonderful food which I could eat. And as I ate I began to dream. The house has a vacant plot next to it which I had thought to turn into a neighborhood park. But then I thought instead to make it half park and the rest healthy urban garden (hug). I could grow food for forkheartknife, I thought, as well as for myself, and eat it too, at fhk and at home. I could get to know you guys, maybe invite you over for dinner sometime. Then I’d get a group together to buy the old Woodward theatre and to make it home for a theatre company, stage concerts, show films. Your story, your example, your food helps people dream. I’ll try to stand in line tonight, your second-to-last, hoping to have only my second fhk meal and to say hello and goodbye, wish you the very best, then think about what can I still do, how to contribute, for a year, a day or forever. The house is still available, if expensive (and due to too many medical bills, my personal credit wouldn’t sustain a loan), and I suppose the Woodward is as well. Main Street beckons with possibilities, as does OTR all together. Thank you for your investment, effort, commitment, example, love and, of course, food. Wish I had become your neighbor and a regular, but got a taste, of what you have offered, from the effect you have had on others. What a gift, a mutual gift, to both give and receive. A year of your lives… I look forward to learning about what happens next for you. No expectations, just anticipation. Go with goodness.
thank you for your kind words. i hope you LOVED the baklava!
Thank you for all the love you put into your food and our city. Fork heart knife was such a beautiful experience. Please know you were appreciated, and let us know where you end up so we can come fill up on love!
I only learned about you today, the last day. So sad that I missed out on the opportunity to enjoy your work and even as I write this I want to make the 2 hour drive north just to see if there is any food left by the time arrive. Yet as you wonder what will happen in your future I’m wondering if you should do this very thing in different cities for a year at a time … Lexington is calling.
Sorry to see you all close. As far as I’m concerned, ForkHeartKnife will go down as a Cincinnati culinary legend.
I’ve wondered what the story behind the story was. Don’t know how I missed this post before.
I applaud your transparency and your willingness to express your doubts and reservations (pun intended).
You are wise to have taken care of yourselves.
Yes, I am sad for me because I loved the times I was in town and able to stop by for a elegant bite to eat.
AND am grateful to both of you for sharing yourselves the way you did this past year. Sitting in the cozy space felt like an extension of your home kitchen – warm and loved. Thank you.
It is my experience that when we show up with expectations – NO one can ever meet/live up to another’s expectations.
I came with intention – responsible for my own experience – my intention was to be surprised.
You surprised me every time! Well done. I wish you well and be watching to see where you pop up, again. Shalom.